Emotional separation from parents
The early relationship we have with our parents lays the foundation for our entire lives.
It shapes how we see ourselves and the world around.
Many of us grew up with parents who couldn’t give us what we needed most.
And those unsatisfied needs became deficiencies that we spend our whole lives trying to fill.
We unconsciously try to fill that emptiness at any cost - constantly seeking validation, approval, and love from others.
Unfortunately, we often end up repeating the same scenarios we learned in childhood, where we once again feel rejected, unseen, or unappreciated. Why? Because that’s what feels safe and familiar to us.
Then we get angry and blame the whole world - or, on the contrary, justify everything by saying that we were just “never meant” to have what we want.
This happens because we project our parents onto other people.
In doing so, we unconsciously maintain a connection with them - we are still asking our parents to love us.
Our parents couldn’t give us everything - not because they didn’t want to, but because they didn’t know how.
They were wounded themselves and could only give us as much as they had within them.
Until we see which of our needs were not met and how we are unconsciously trying to fulfil them now - until we release the hurt we hold toward our parents - we will continue to live not as our true selves, but according to the patterns formed in childhood.
We won’t be able to emotionally separate from them, and we won’t be able to fully take responsibility for our own lives.
The purpose of this lecture is to help you release old resentments, emotionally separate from your parents, take responsibility for yourself, and learn how to meet your own needs.
Separation is the only path to stop repeating the patterns learned in childhood and to finally create the life you truly want to live.
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Why do I keep attracting similar people and repeating the same painful situations?
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Why can’t I create the kind of life I truly want?
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Why does everything seem to come easily to others, while I have to put in so much effort just to achieve anything?
Why do I keep blaming the whole world for not giving me what I want? -
What is my fake “self” - the version of me that I show to the world - and how does it prevent me from experiencing real closeness with others?
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Which parts of my personality have I pushed away - the parts I don’t want to see in myself and don’t want others to see either?
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Why do I keep choosing partners who are emotionally cold or emotionally unavailable?
Why do I choose partners who do not respect me or hurt me? -
Why do I find myself in relationships where real emotional closeness and connection feel impossible?
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Why do I feel like I give everything, yet receive nothing in return?
Why do my needs always remain unmet? -
Why do I feel I have to fight for love, attention, and support?
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Why, no matter how hard I try to communicate with my partner, he still doesn’t hear me?
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Why am I so afraid of rejection - why do I adapt, suppress myself, and become “convenient” for others?
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Why, even though everything looks good on the outside, do I still feel empty or lonely inside?
In this lecture we will talk about:
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How your relationship with your mother shaped your ability to get what you want from the world.
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How to recognise which childhood needs were unmet and how this affects your adult life.
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How to stop blaming or justifying your parents.
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How to discover the hurt and resentments you hold toward your parents and how to release it.
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How to emotionally separate from your parents and become a mature adult who can take responsibility for himself.
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How to stop projecting your parents onto other people - partners, friends, and so on.
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How to rebuild a connection with your true self and start truly hearing yourself again.
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How to take responsibility for your own life and learn to meet your emotional needs in ways that feel right and natural for you.
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How to create the life you genuinely want - one that truly feels like yours.
In this lecture, you will learn:
1h 30min lecture + Homework
Money for the lecture is not refundable.